October 14, 2014

God taught me three big lessons in 10 minutes


This morning I was on my way to meet a friend for coffee and running a few minutes late. I was growing increasingly anxious over the slow drivers and the red lights and the pedestrians. I quickly grabbed the first available parking spot and jumped out of the car to throw some quarters in the meter.

A woman walked by and she was crying.

I asked her if she was ok. Her name was Tammy and she told me a story of her rough morning: a car accident, a friend was supposed to pick her up in Dormont an hour and a half earlier (we were in Mt. Lebanon, where she had walked after not connecting with her friend), her cell phone was dead and she didn't have a charger and she didn't have anyone's phone numbers, she lives in Squirrel Hill but didn't have her house keys because they were in her car and her car was towed, and she was in pain from the accident.

I asked what her plan was at this point. She said she didn't know and that she had just been walking around and freaking out. I invited her to come to the coffee shop so we could figure it out. We then walked a few blocks -- very slowly -- which made me even more anxious about being late.

When we arrived at the cafe, my friend was so kind and welcoming to Tammy. The three of us talked for a few minutes, trying to find solutions, and we had none.

Suddenly, a passerby knocked on the window. Tammy lit up -- "That's my friend!" she said. Her friend had been searching for 1.5 hours, and he happened to walk right by the coffee shop in Mt. Lebanon. I was amazed!

So in about 10 minutes, God taught me three powerful lessons:

1. God is actively loving us and very involved in our life.
Tammy was in an accident and a series of events followed that put her in a bad situation. She was feeling lost, lonely, and helpless, and God showed his love to her through other people. I said hi to her, my friend welcomed her, and Tammy's friend searched for and found her. God was active in loving Tammy in her tough time. Praise God! Additionally, God's love of Tammy was a gift for me in that I could witness how he pursued her and surrounded her with love. God is generous and his gifts are multiplied for his glory.

2. Trust. Say YES and then trust in the Lord.
When I said hi to Tammy and she told me her story, I was thinking that I had no idea how to help. No idea. And the only idea was pretty involved and inconvenient -- drive to the towing company, wherever that was, get her house keys, and then drive her to Squirrel Hill. All on a Monday morning in rush hour traffic.

But, God didn't call me to have the answers. He called me to say hello. He had the answers and he was going to solve this problem. We need to trust God. We need to stop our habit of only taking action if we have it all "figured out." We desire control and knowing the end result. Instead, let us say yes to the way God moves in our heart and trust that he will be with us and provide for us. God is at work, and he invites us to participate in his work, and he will accomplish his will.

3. Meet God in the moment.
I was "busy" this morning and feeling rushed because I had plans. I didn't want to spend time talking to someone; I didn't want to de-rail my morning. But it was a moment to reach out to the stranger. Bishop Zubik has said, "We are called to see Jesus in others and to be Jesus to others." And in that short time, God reached into our lives in a powerful way. We witnessed God's movement, and we were blessed.

Where did you see God today? When did you feel him stirring in you? What happened?

October 7, 2014

We know pain, but we will know healing and joy.

Photo by Maureen Kennedy Macel

"I tell you, you will weep and mourn... you will have pain, but your pain will turn into joy. When a woman is in labor, she has pain, because her time has come. But when her child is born, she no longer remembers the anguish because of the joy of having brought a human being into the world. So you have pain now; but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you." John 16:20-22

Jesus knew the suffering we experience in life. He came to share in our suffering so that one day we may be healed, restored and forever have joy. In Jesus' life, he endured immense suffering, and that's just the stuff we know about. There's a lot more about his life that wouldn't have been recorded in Scripture, such as the death of family members and friends, friends who had miscarriages, friends who lost their jobs, (he probably lost a job or two!), aches and pains, injuries, etc.

Jesus:

  • was born into poverty.
  • was trained in a trade and expected to work to support his family.
  • lost his foster father Joseph.
  • was rejected by his hometown as he began his ministry.
  • mourned the murder of his cousin.
  • was deeply moved by sadness and compassion for the suffering of others.
  • was rejected by people in powerful positions who made life difficult for him by always trying to trap him, harm him, and embarrass him.
  • was betrayed by a friend.
  • was abandoned by his friends.
  • was unjustly accused and condemned.
  • was tortured.
  • was taunted by a crowd in his hours of deepest physical and emotional pain.
  • was publicly humiliated.
  • was killed. 

Jesus is very aware of and attentive to suffering, and he always moves to love the person who is in pain. In his time, whether people were ill, or excluded from society, or lost in the darkness of sin, Jesus healed them and invited them to a whole new way of life.

He gives us the same kind of healing today, and invites us to allow him to change our lives. Our healing begins now and is made complete when we join God in the life to come. Only then will we be fully healed and restored, and then we will have complete joy!

One day, the anguish of our lives will be forgotten and all we will feel is unending, total, all-consuming joy. Jesus promises us, "Behold, I make all things new." Revelation 21:5