Five Truths: Truth 2 - Identity

 

Identity

We receive our dignity from God. We also receive our identity from God. Our identity is not our
earthly lineage. We do not receive our personal value from worldly things. We have been created
by the God that was in the beginning is now and will be forever. We were created for eternal life
with God. We are first and foremost a member of God's family and Kingdom.

"For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. ...you have received a spirit of
adoption. When we cry, 'Abba, Father!' it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we
are children of God, and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ..." Romans
8:14-17

We are children of God and we are created to inherit his heavenly Kingdom. When God created
man and woman, he called them "good." When he created you, he called you good, too. We have
his goodness in our hearts and we have a heart that knows and cries out for the Lord. We are his
children, and if we are God's children, then we are heirs to the King. That's our identity!

Too often we seek to create our own identity because we do not know our value and purpose.
We seek to create our value through worldly things such as success, achievements, wealth, and
reputation. We are not these things! Our value, our entire identity is in God as his children. We
can do nothing to enhance our identity before God because we are his children and he loves us all
equally. He gives different gifts to different people to be used for building his Kingdom, and he calls
some to greatness for him and others to lives of simplicity, but we are all equal.

Therefore, do not chase worldly things that inflate your ego and false image of your own self worth.
That is not who you are. You are the good that God created you to be as his child for his Kingdom.
Seek your identity in Christ. That is who you are.  “It is not wrong to desire greatness, but our
greatness must reside in our passion for the gospel of Jesus Christ and our desire to share it with
others” (The Catholic Faith & Family Bible page 1367).

Five Truths: Truth 1 - Dignity

We live in a time that is in need of compassion and kinship. Everywhere in society we see the deadly
consequences of violence, greed, and injustice. But our souls have been created by God and made
to desire the good. I have seen and experienced acts of generosity and love that we show one
another, our children, our families, our neighbors, and strangers. I have seen actions that build the
Kingdom of God on earth: a society of equality, justice, compassion, forgiveness, generosity, and
love.

God desires us to know and love him, and to trust that his way is the way to happiness. He is always
pursuing each one of us in everything, beckoning us to choose and follow him. I have great hope in
the goodness placed in us by him and encourage you to listen to that voice inside your heart and
find the Lord calling you to something more.

"The word is very near to you; it is in your mouth and in your heart for you to observe." Deuteronomy 30:14

"[the Lord says] I will put my law within them, and I will write it on their hearts..." Jeremiah 31:33

I am one who also seeks, questions, wonders, and desires the good. Our lives are journeys with ups
and downs, clarity and obscurity, faith and doubt, hopefulness and desperation. I wish to encourage
you and lift you up as you journey. First, let us reflect on some of the truths: our God-given
dignity and identity, goodness in diversity, purpose of unity, and call to solidarity.

I once read that we are not judged as a summation of our good versus bad actions, as if it were
a tally of pluses and minuses to see which comes out ahead. Instead, what matters is the direction
of our lives. Do we repent? Do we forgive? Do we change our lives for the better and keep moving
forward? Let us pray that we open ourselves to the Holy Spirit, grow towards the good, and seek
the Truth that leads to complete and eternal love. Let us pray that our lives are transformed by
God.

Dignity

 

Each person is made in the image and likeness of God, made for a relationship with the Blessed
Trinity, God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit, to grow in knowledge and love of the
Lord. We were created by God, and known and loved by God long before we were born.

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you..." Jeremiah 1:5

We are the result of his loving and holy vision. God so overflows with love, the complete essence
of who he is, that he cannot help but do something with that love, and so he creates. And joyfully!
He wants us to have the smallest glimpse of his immense joy and love that he invites us to be cocreators with him. Parents bring live into the world, cooperating with God and his plan for creation
and life in him.

He chose to create you. He desires to make you complete by the love in which he wants to surround
you. In heaven, we join in the perfect love of the Blessed Trinity, and we are made whole. Our
purpose is in God. Our destiny is in God.

Every person is made by God and for God. Since we are all created by God, we are all equal, no
matter our lot in life. We all have equal dignity. Our souls are designed to know God's goodness and
receive his love. Praise you, Lord!

"My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord..." Luke 1:46

"Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name." Psalm 103:1

God is a God of Life

Photo taken by Maur at Lake Canadohta

Last week I was in Rehoboth Beach with my family. Early one morning I went on a run and came across the Rehoboth Art League and a little marina nearby. I went down to the water to explore. It was a beautiful morning with a blue sky and bright sun, and I stood on the wooden walkway looking out onto the wetlands and watched different types of birds flying around, swooping low along the water and then across the tall grasses.

In these quiet moments of pure awe of the beauty of nature, I was acutely aware of the life that was all around me. The abundance of life – below the water, on the earth, in the sky, birds, fish, insects, plants, trees – every inch was full of life. And I experienced the love of God the Creator and the joy in which He creates. God is a God of life. He loves to give life to things. Life is everywhere, big and small. God loves giving life!

Human beings are the only creatures created in the image and likeness of God, capable of knowing and loving God, and called to a relationship with God our Creator. Perhaps you have heard of the phrase and a few Scripture verses that say, “For to whom much is given, much is required.”  I’d say that we’ve been given “much”:  We have been created by and for God. We have been given divine life within us. We receive grace to grow in knowledge and love of the Lord. We can know God’s love for us by the fact that we exist and by understanding what Jesus did for us with His life, death, and resurrection. We can know God as a God of life.

We have been given much, and much is required of us. As disciples this means to share the Good News and the love of Jesus. How can we celebrate the God of Life? How can we be good stewards of His creation?

Come, Holy Spirit.

Can I transcend my own discomfort?

 from Google Images

I was thinking about how bad it feels to be sick. Whether suffering from a serious illness or a common cold, being sick can trap us in our own life and in our own discomfort, and it's really hard to think beyond our immediate misery. We just want to be well again; we don't want to feel bad anymore. The same can be said when we're hurt or dealing with emotional pain. And yet, there are amazing men and women who live with pain everyday, and they move forward in loving ways by transcending their pain and looking beyond themselves.

I am inspired by my friend, who I'll call Sara, who suffers from kidney disease, often needs to carry around an oxygen tank, and can't eat typical foods at get-togethers with friends. She is a loving aunt, a thoughtful friend, an insightful Christian, and a talented writer. She gives her life to God in her circumstances and cares for others. She has the courage and strength to live outside of herself. I wonder... if I had even a fraction of the suffering that she endures on a daily basis, could I do what she does?

Even though I thank God for the many blessings He gives me, how often I take them for granted. Oh, if my faith were to be put to the test... that is a hard thought!

In Wisdom 9, Solomon says, "for a perishable body weighs down the soul, and this earthy tent burdens the thoughtful mind."

Blessed are they who suffer whose souls transcend their "earthy tents" as they raise their lives to God and live outside themselves. Blessed be Sara and everyone who struggles with illness, pain, and the many other burdens of this life, and yet live with love to build God's kingdom.

My bible has a teaching note that states: "When we choose to accept our suffering, God will transform this suffering into a positive witness." I am grateful for the positive witnesses in my life and in the world around me. Thank you, God, for their example. Help me to be more like them.

Stop the Fear

I was emailing with a friend about a change that she's discerning in her life -- she has moments where she's overwhelmed by fear. She told me I should post some of my email on the blog ... I hope it encourages anyone who may need it!

Your struggle with fear is a natural thing for many people. But, do not let your fear drive you. Fear, while good at times because it can help you identify something dangerous or risky, is not something that should make your decisions or guide your life. Fear is something that you should recognize and then deal with directly. You are in control; fear is not in control. Plus, love drives out fear. Light is more powerful than darkness. Fear makes us feel trapped and scared. But Jesus tells us that we don't need to spend time with those negative emotions because His Way defeats darkness and with Him we can overcome fear. If you are overwhelmed by fear, let Jesus drive the darkness out. I think that could happen even by you trusting Him to take care of you.

I recommend acknowledging your emotions, but if they are making you feel fear and aren't identifying anything new, you have to put them in their place and tell them to shut up:

"I hear you, fear, but I don't have time to spend with you. You only say the same things over and over again. I hear you, but I'm not going to sit here for minutes or hours letting you repeat the same few things. You have nothing new to say so we're done talking. I have stuff to do."

Acknowledge your fear and then put it in its place. We have lives in God's love that are made to overcome fear. Fear is a lie. Light and love are truth. Right now -- and always -- you're seeking truth, so let God help you cast out the fear.

Eventually, we have to take a leap of faith! Change is hard. I know you're praying for God to lead and help you in your decision, which is the best prayer. I hope you receive consolation that helps you move in a certain direction -- or even get an answer, that would be awesome! Most likely you will have to do your best to make a decision, even if you are afraid. If you leap, God is with you and just call on Him. Then go in trust; He will take care of you. Then your prayer can become, "Ok, God, I'm doing this. Please be with me and work it all out."

And lastly, God knows you, He loves you, and He delights in you! He knows this is hard for you, and He is so happy to support you and lead you through it. He wants to give you freedom from anything that is holding you back. Keep trusting in Him!

As you discern, make sure you base your decision on hope and not on fear. Fear is a lie. Fear is the opposite of love. Let love and light and hope have the power!

Love is Ready to Heal

Photo taken by my sister, Maureen

I previously wrote that I relate to Peter's (the apostle) story because I desire with all my heart to do God’s will, and yet there are times that I totally fail. I am reminded that Jesus always offers love and healing, and that despite all of my failures, He asks me to be a leader for Him. He desires the same of you.

Here's the deal: Peter was one of Jesus' best friends. At the Last Supper, Peter promised Jesus he would be there with Him through anything. Peter seriously meant it -- as Jesus was being arrested by the authorities, Peter cut off the slave's ear to defend Jesus. Then Peter followed Jesus when He was taken to be questioned by the high priest. But, when Peter is asked by a woman as to whether he knows Jesus, Peter becomes overwhelmed by fear, he freaks out and denies Jesus three times, and then he runs off, away from the scene. The next day, Jesus is put to death.

I imagine how Peter must have felt after abandoning his best friend and knowing that his friend, the Son of God, died a horrific death.

Three days later, we have the joy of the Resurrection, and Jesus begins revealing himself to the disciples. Again, I imagine how Peter must have felt to come face-to-face with the friend he abandoned. Peter's heart was probably overwhelmed with shame, regret, sorrow, and the feeling of complete failure. The pain he was carrying, the despair and disappointment he felt with himself -- all of that had been crushing him since the moment he realized he denied the Lord.

Jesus, our God, knows everything, and He knew Peter's pain. At the end of the Gospel according to John, we read that after breakfast with the disciples, Jesus pulls Simon Peter aside. The conversation went like this:

Jesus: Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?
Peter: Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.
Jesus: Feed my lambs.

Jesus: Simon, son of John, do you love me?
Peter: Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.
Jesus: Tend my sheep.

Jesus: Simon, son of John, do you love me?
Peter: Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.
Jesus: Feed my sheep.

Jesus knew Peter's pain and gave Peter healing. Where Peter had denied knowing Jesus three times, Jesus asked Peter three times, "Do you love me." Jesus lovingly offered Peter redemption, for Peter's sake. Jesus knew Peter's heart, He knew how the events would transpire, and He knew that Peter needed the healing that only comes from God.

God knows our hearts. He loves us as His children. He knows our brokenness, and He wants to heal us. Will you let Jesus into your heart so He can heal you and bind you by His love?

Reflecting on Faith, Part 2: Doubt

Clouds over Manly Beach, Sydney Australia

Faith is a mystery. There are things we cannot understand about God and faith – even if we believe, we cannot fully understand. Knowing the fullness God and His love and mercy are beyond our human comprehension and understanding.

It’s natural to sometimes find ourselves in times of doubt. I know it happens to me! What if there isn’t life after death?  There are so many people in the world -- How is God in a loving relationship with all those who know Him, and actively loving the ones who don’t?  Why would He care about some of my small, comparatively insignificant prayers and concerns, when there are people in the world crying out to him in fear and pain? It is beyond my understanding.

So when I feel darkness here are some things I do to help strengthen my faith.


When I doubt:

• I hold on to the faith of other people. For example, my Gramma's faith was so strong and she was so certain, that I choose to believe what she believed. I follow her because I believe in her, and she followed the Lord.
• I reflect on moments that I've felt God in my life. Such as appreciating the beauty and wonder in nature, the times of deep joy in my heart, and times I know God brought me to someone or something.

When things are tough:

• I make Jesus my best friend, sharing everything with Him and turning to Him first. I tell Him my thoughts, disappointments, anxieties, and concerns. I give him everything and talk to Him as my best friend, knowing that He loves me and is with me through it all.
• I remember that Jesus conquered the world, and there is nothing that He cannot help me overcome. Jesus has defeated death, fear, and sin. Love wins. There is nothing on this earth that can hold me down if I choose Jesus and follow His way. Love conquers all.

When I need encouragement:

• I talk with my family and friends who lift me up.
• I read about the lives of the saints. Every single one of them is totally different: Some of them were pious from childhood, but many of them lived lives full of selfishness and sin before conversion; they all came to God in their own ways; and each lived a call to holiness that was unique to his/her gifts. God calls us all; He calls me and desires me. There is something, or many things, that I can do to build His kingdom, and by doing so, I become more like who He created me to be.
• I remember Peter. He was Jesus’ best friend, swearing to be by Jesus’ side through it all, and yet Peter denied Jesus during Jesus’ time of need. Jesus forgave Peter and asked him to lead the Church. I am like Peter. I desire with all my heart to do God’s will, and yet there are times I totally fail. Jesus offers forgiveness and healing, and despite all of my failures, He asks me to be a leader for Him. (More on this another time.)

Faith asks us to believe what we cannot see. And while sometimes I choose to believe what I cannot see, there are things in my life that I can see. I see the love God has for me through family and friends. I see how God has worked in my life. I feel how He opens my heart with love. I see prayers answered. I see people who are kind to one another. And I believe. I believe in Jesus, who He is and what He taught. And I believe in the faith of others, in miracles, in saints, and in the lives of people who strive to do good.